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Saturday, September 30, 2006

How come girls, well, not to generalise or anything, urmz, ok, to whom it MAY concern, have this bad habit of becoming overly jealous, or have a lingering hope that their relationship partners are able to read their mind?

Before I even get to this issue, firstly maybe I'd like to specify that most girls understand that guys are usually dense, and insensitive to a certain extent. Don't blame it that guys are faking to be insensitive, they ARE naturally insensitive, or should we rephrase it as being very rational. Sensitive, or being emotional about certain things are traits of the female gender, who due to the women right's movement, has claimed that guys should be sensitive about certain issues as well. About this women right's issue, is a very sensitive topic to talk about cause I'm not against it but we'll discuss this in future posts.

Therefore, girls have this habit of expecting their relationship partner to be able to somehow read their mind, and plan out counter measures. All this without a single word being exchanged. How this is possible? It was never possible, but it seems that its a normal action done to well, test their boyfriends in HOPE that they are SENSITIVE enough to pick up the clues and hints drop here and there. In most cases, their hopes are crushed due to the fact that alot of guys fails to pick up these hints, cause they are naturally dense about the things around them.

So the million dollar question is, most girls knows that the probability of guys being able to figure it out is very low, why do they still do these kind of things? In hope that their boyfriend is THE boyfriend everyone has been trying to search? Like the golden egg or something? Guess its like gambling, you know your chances of losing are always higher than winning, yet you keep on playing. Shrugs.

Disclaimer: This post is not related to anyone in particular. Dammit, I did said to whom it may concern didn't I?

arfandi used up his time at 3:01 AM